A man has sparked debate online after stating that many men settle for partners who can provide stability rather than marrying women they genuinely desire.
He argued this contributes to high divorce rates, as men often walk away when the qualities that initially influenced their choice change.
A man has sparked widespread debate online after claiming that most men do not marry the women they truly desire.
According to him, “80% of men do not marry women that they like. They marry women that can hold them down.”
He explained further that while a man may admire or feel drawn to a particular woman, when it comes to marriage, he often settles for another woman whose qualities or character seem better suited to keeping his home stable.
The man linked this to the high rate of divorce, arguing: “When the character or traits that convinced a man to marry a woman eventually change, it becomes easy for him to walk away.”
He concluded that if men married women they genuinely liked, “it wouldn’t be so easy to just sign divorce papers.”
In other news….. Nollywood star Adesua Etomi-Wellington has shared her perspective on how to approach the success of others.
In an Instagram story, the mother of two encouraged people to see encounters with those who are wealthier, more skilled, or further along in life as opportunities for personal growth rather than competition.
According to Naija News, Etomi-Wellington described being surrounded by people who excel in different areas as a privilege and a source of inspiration. She advised that such experiences should serve as motivation for self-improvement instead of breeding insecurity.
The actress who is married to singer and politician Banky W emphasized that keeping company with disciplined and accomplished individuals creates valuable learning opportunities.
She urged her followers to draw strength and encouragement from others’ achievements, writing:
“Smarter, more accomplished, more talented, more disciplined, richer, wiser, etc = blessing. Not threat.”
