Dr. Gbenga, a Nigerian physician, has expressed that individuals seeking to encounter the ‘useless, irresponsible, and heartless’ men and husbands should visit the labor and gynecology wards in hospitals.
He shared his experiences on the X platform, recounting an incident where a man divorced his wife after she faced complications related to her pregnancy and was unable to pay the medical bills.
Additionally, he mentioned another case where a husband demanded the discharge of his wife, who was in critical condition and required an emergency C-section, so that he could go home to sleep.
“You want to meet the most irresponsible set of men ever? Just visit the labour or gynae ward in the hospital. That’s where you will find the most useless men and husbands. I have seen so many heartless men but the height of it all was when a man divorced his wife because she developed pregnancy related complications and he had no money to cover the bills, only for him to remarry her few months following delivery when she had fully recovered. The lady and her family too are definitely on crack and I’m not even sad for them,” he wrote.
“Few years ago I had a patient who was eclamptic, had wicked BPs, had to do an emergency csection, patient wasn’t well enough to consent so I was trying to explain to the spouse about the procedure, complications etc, this useless man interrupted me asking when she can be discharged that he wants to go and sleep with Zero regard for the woman who was fighting for her life. That lady coded 3 times on d table, luckily we were able to save the baby and she was admitted to the icu for a while.. This man never came to visit her until d day she was about to be discharged. Wicked is an understatement.”
