A Nigerian woman, popularly known as Mrs. Sugar, has ignited a conversation on TikTok after urging unmarried women aged 37 and above to prioritize having children, even if they are not married.
In her video, Mrs. Sugar emphasized that while marriage is a beautiful institution, women approaching their 40s should not feel compelled to wait indefinitely for a partner before starting a family.
“See my sister, I know you are waiting on the Lord to give you the right partner. Marriage is a beautiful thing, but as marriage never come, my sister, born pikin [have a child],” she advised.
She advocated for women to explore ethical and legal avenues for conception if they wish to avoid casual relationships, assuring that having a child out of wedlock does not preclude future happiness or meaningful relationships.
Mrs. Sugar’s comments have sparked widespread reactions online. Supporters hailed her practicality and focus on personal fulfilment, while critics argued that such decisions should align with individual values and circumstances.
The debate continues as her remarks shed light on societal expectations and the evolving perspectives on marriage and motherhood.
Watch the video below …
Can we create a relationship like dating to know your behavior, I can’t just jump to marriage with you, because I will have to know your behavior before I proceed an engagement with you