A Nigerian woman expressed her frustration with single motherhood and irresponsible men in a viral social media post.
She highlighted her struggle by mentioning that she recently paid her children’s school fees on her own.
The woman directed her anger towards men who abandoned their responsibilities, stating that they left her to manage alone.
A Nigerian woman has sparked mixed reactions online after expressing frustration over single motherhood and irresponsible men.
In a viral post, she revealed she had just paid her children’s school fees all by herself and shared her anger at the men who left her to handle the burden alone. She wrote, “I just single-handedly paid my children’s school fees again. All I can say is may God punish all men who made us single mothers and left the responsibilities for us to handle alone. God go punish men. E no go better for una.”
The post quickly went viral, drawing hundreds of responses across X (formerly Twitter). While some sympathized with her, others criticized her for hypocrisy and questioned her choices in relationships.
Several users weighed in with both advice and criticism. One user, dexxybaba, wrote: “You didn’t know he was irresponsible when you decided to pair with him… the signs are always obvious.” He advised women to avoid having children with men they already know are unreliable.
Another, alison_ibra, criticized her tone, saying: “Aren’t they your children too? Why so bitter about taking care of your own kids?”
Some users also referenced previous interviews in which she allegedly admitted to being openly promiscuous. Efe_edwards commented: “Isn’t this the lady who said she has kids with two different men and plans to have more with others? She made poor choices and now blames men.”
Others echoed similar sentiments, suggesting her current struggles may stem from her lifestyle choices.
The heated discussion has since circulated widely on social media, reigniting debates about single parenting, personal accountability, and gender expectations in relationships.
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“I just single-handedly paid my children’s school fees”
“All I can say is may God punish all the men who made us single mothers and leave the responsibilities for us alone to handle”
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— Rita (@RitableP) October 3, 2025