Destiny Amaka discusses challenges faced by “intentional women” in modern dating.
She describes contemporary relationships as increasingly transactional and disappointing.
Many men expect intimacy in return for basic dating gestures, like going out.
Media personality Destiny Amaka has opened up about the challenges she and other “intentional women” face in the dating scene, describing modern relationships as increasingly transactional and disappointing.
In an Instagram story, Destiny shared her frustration with many men, pointing out that some expect intimacy in exchange for simply taking a woman out. She argued that constantly sharing intimacy with every man during the early stages of dating leaves no room for building real chemistry.
“A lot of men have lost the art of being a gentleman. Imagine taking a woman out and thinking the least she owes you is a kiss? Dating isn’t supposed to feel like a transaction,” she wrote.
The actress and media girl stressed that it has become increasingly difficult to find men who are intentional, intelligent, respectful, and supportive. “The streets are rough for us intentional women oh!” she lamented.
Destiny also emphasized that she never expects from a man what she cannot do for herself. She added that she can easily sense men who are only interested in sex, describing it as “off-putting.”
She further advised men to treat women with the same respect they would want for their own mothers and sisters. “You can’t say you want a good woman but expect her to be loose, it doesn’t blend. If that’s what you’re after, there are places for that,” she stated.
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See somecomments below:
@raypwol: “Some will buy small fish and a bottle of beer for you,next thing let’s go and lodge😂😂😂.”
@sarahopeyemitv: “I’m glad someone is speaking up. She spoke my mind.”
@leeroygramofficial: “This one is different! She is talking as an intentional woman and partner.. not a liability.. and she’s very correct💯 good women deserve good men! Let rubbish discover themselves!”
@therealdonwilly: “It’s harder to find a good woman ….no one easy …..”
@chidozieduru : “The situation is same on both sides….same way e hard una to find good man, same way e hard us to find good woman…all of us will suffer😂.”
@taritatosky: “Na true say dating don become like transaction for some people. Plenty men dey expect physical intimacy too quick, without even knowing di person. Make we no forget say respect and genuine interest dey important for building meaningful relationships. Women deserve to be treated with dignity and respect, no matter di circumstances.”
